I'd also like to call him my husband. I'm not the biggest fan of the word “partner”: It either means that we run a business together or we're cowboys. “Boyfriend” seems fleeting, like maybe we met two weeks ago. I've been saying “better half” for as long as I've been able to. I think it's a little self-deprecating and clearly defines that we're in a relationship, but it would be nice to say “my husband."